Weekend in Michigan

Saturday morning, I left Toledo, OH for Grand Rapids, MI. I got about half way here and was checking in with Kelly. She reminded me that her brother, Ted, and his wife, Lisa, live in Grand Rapids. I had actually forgotten that, but planned to go to Grand Rapids and stay the weekend and catch the ferry over to Milwaukee on Monday. So, I touched base with Ted and he had me cancel my motel reservation and come to his house to stay. It was just him and Lisa because my nephews were on vacation with their mom. Saturday evening was beautiful, so he and Lisa got his bike out and we rode some of the back roads around Grand Rapids and went to dinner in Rockford, MI. It was great to have the opportunity to catch up with Ted & Lisa. I appreciate their hospitality!


When I got to Michigan, I was sure to contact the Rt. Rev. Whayne Hogland, Bishop of Western Michigan, and former rector of St. Luke's in Salisbury, NC, who was my mentor when I was first ordained priest. It would have been good to catch up with Whayne, but he is in Europe. 

Sunday, I attended worship at St. Andrew's, Grand Rapids. Lovely place. They seemed to be in "vacation mode" for the weekend and had a supply priest. The rector, The Rev. Michael C. Fedewa, was on a mini sabbatical for 6 weeks as the parish plans for transition. The service I attended was a Rite II Eucharist (prayer C) with a mixture of hymns from 1982 and supplements. I found it pretty cool that they publish a link to their bulletin online. You can download the bulletin here. You can download the bulletin here. 

I was approached following the service by the Rev. Deacon Cindy Nawrocki and given a "Welcome Bag" with fresh bread and welcome materials. I found it to be a wonderful gesture. Piggybacking off of my reflection from a couple days ago, welcome is a BIG DEAL! Even though, as a newcomer, I felt a bit lost at St. Andrew's at first, I was welcomed at the end. Deacon Cindy had never seen me at St. Andrew's before and made a point to speak to me. This made me feel great. Of course, when I visit different places, I don't have the word "PRIEST" tattooed on my forehead. I'm a little scruffy (haven't shaved in 16 days, helmet hair, etc...) so I am a little worse for wear. However, I was welcomed and encouraged to return. The thing that stood out to me is the way they did the offering, with everyone coming forward to bring their gifts to the altar (financial, food, bread, wine, etc.) I had never seen that done before, and I like it! 
   
 
Challenge to Self: As a priest, think about how a newcomer feels in a church environment... what if I knew nothing about church, or what to do, or where to go? I'm sure my experience at St. Andrew's would be much different.

Challenge to Trinity: Think about why you are at Trinity, how you were "received" and why you stayed. Think about the life long relationships you have kindled and how Trinity has become family after a short time. I heard a term recently... "Framily" - it's when friends become so close they are family. If we, at Trinity, are "ONE family under God," how are we displaying that to the world?

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Missouri on Route 66

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Today (Friday) I road across the state of Missouri, from St. Louis to Joplin. Yesterday evening in St. Louis, it was nice to have dinner with a friend (Kelly Saveika) that I haven't seen since we were in high school. We have know each other since elementary school. Life has taken us in different directions, and we keep up on Facebook, but for a couple of hours it was good to connect in person. Tomorrow I get to meet up with my former college roommate, Bill Fankhauser. Bill and I went to the Citadel together (Regimental Band - Class of 89). He and his wife have invited me to spend the weekend with them. So I ride tomorrow from Joplin, MO, through the little corner of Kansas to Oklahoma City, OK. Connecting with friends from years ago really enlightens the journey. It's not just the road that I am on... It's not just the old towns and the interesting countryside of things from what was once the "mother road." It's the people... the lives of those who make up my
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Ohio!

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God's Paintbrush!

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Down to the South East Corner of Washington

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It's Tuesday (8/1) and I am officially 1/2 way (6 weeks) into my sabbatical. Today I rode from Winthrop, WA down to the South East Corner of the state, Clarkeston, WA. It was hazy, due to fire activity in Idaho. I also experienced some remnants of forest fires where it looks like 1000+ acres were burned. As the ride progressed, it got warmer and warmer, until I got to Clarkeston where it was 103 degrees! Glad I'm in for the night with AC! On the way out, I stopped for coffee at Blue Star Coffee Roasters in Whisp, WA. This was recommended by the young couple this morning as I was packing up camp. It was a very good choice!! Great cup of coffee. The ride took me along the Columbia River and finally crossing the Snake River into Idaho then back into Washington. It reminded me of the saying, "you can't get there from here!" If you're from South Carolina, you know what I am talking about. Today's thoughts and concerns are about fire and the devastati
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Getting Psyched! - Day 0

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May 1, 2022  It’s our first night. After church, Kelly took me at Amicalola Falls State Park Lodge, where we (Ken aka “Breadcrumbs,” and I) will spend the night. We hit the trail in the am after an 8 am breakfast. We decided to take a ride to the start of the Appalachian Trail at Springer Mt rather than do the approach trail. The lodge is nice. We both repacked our packs and did a double check of all our necessities.  I’m looking forward to the journey. I’m thankful that Ken and I are doing this together. We feel the prayers and support from everyone who knows about our trek.  I think about how we as humans are social creatures. We need each other. For me, part of what makes church a relevant part of life is the connection to other believers, helping care for one another. I pray that others feel the same way.  It’s getting late and the trail is going to be calling early. Happy Trails & Many Blessings! Ken+
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Seaside Monday!

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Today (7/24) I rode from Coos Bay, OR to Seaside, OR. Talk about a cold ride! This one was really cool with the cross winds and overcast. I don't think I saw the sun but twice. I tend to take more pictures when the sun is out, so the bulk of the pictures from today include sunshine. The ride up Hwy 101 and the coast of Oregon was great, even though it was cold and overcast. At one time, I felt wet from all the sea spray. So, not every day has been the bliss of sunshine! Hmmm... it reminds me of life. While the good days definitely outnumber the bad, I've had my share of clouds. I think that the clouds are what help us appreciate the sunshine. It's the gloomy pieces that make the bright pieces so much more enjoyable. Church life is not any different. Church is a messy place sometimes. It isn't all sunshine and daffodils. Sometimes there can be real challenge and real hardship for the community, but if the community is living for Christ, then it is possible to get thr
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Walking in Memphis (for the Weekend)

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